LILNR is non-profit, educational organization, dedicated to providing a means for its members and guests to network, teach, learn, share, practice and discuss BDSM and other related kinks.
 
It is our goal to create a community-centered atmosphere where adults with an interest in an alternative, pansexual, BDSM, kink or D/s lifestyle, can further educate and foster good fellowship in a welcoming, nurturing and safe environment.

Membership in LILNR  is open to anyone 19 years old or older regardless of gender, race, sexual orientation/identity, or creed with a genuine interest in BDSM or alternative lifestyles who agrees to abide by the rules and procedures of LILNR Bylaws. 

Current Dues are $35 for a 12 month period from the date your membership is purchased. Payment may also be made to a Membership Committee Member or Board Member in person if you so choose.

Current Membership Benefits include:

• Discounted attendance to all LILNR parties, workshops, and classes ($10 discount per event admission).
• Access to our lending library, full of educational reading material about BDSM and related kink.
• A thorough grievance procedure ensuring any issues are resolved quickly and fairly.
• Access to our LILNR’s Discord Server
• Discounts at numerous adult and fetish wear shops in New York and Long Island
• An opportunity to help support a community you're proud to be a part of!

Still considering becoming a member? Come to a meeting and get to know us. If you wish to join, you can sign up for membership right at the meeting.